Wednesday, 21 November 2018

                                   

                                  LOVE ! LOVE !! LOVE !!!


            Love 💕 love 💕 love 💕
Men how can you say you love a lady yet act the way you do?🙄🙄
If you are too official or reserve to play with your wife, any where, anytime, exactly what do we call that? Holiness? Gentleness? Shyness?
Hmmmmm.... I'm not sure what to call it, how about you suggest to me what to call it...🤔
Have you heard your spouse asking questions like this:
-Honey why don't you like playing with me?
-Honey why don't you like jokes
-Honey the only times you remember playing with me is when you want to have sex. But why?
Young man, you keep giving her excuses how that you are a very busy man and also that you are not the playful type vice versa 🙄🙄🙄hmmm wow 😳.
.....ok my question is:
Should we blame the man or blame the woman?
  My answer....
-ladies and gentlemen if you are a playful person or a lively person, please don't go and marry a man or woman who does the opposite. One who loves to be on their own or are not fun to be with.
-Marry someone who is proud of you anytime, anywhere because some of the reasons why most men don't play with their wives is because they are not proud of them. But why marry a woman you are not proud of?🤷‍♀️ oh!! humans are complicated beings (This does not apply to people who playing is not in their temperament).
-If he plays with you only when he wants to have sex, then he is using you and does not care about your happiness. It is another form of abuse🙄
-And to women who are not bold enough to speak out. Please stop dying in silence, listen if you continue crying in your closet and not letting him how you feel, believe me when everyone wakes up tomorrow and can't find you breathing, it might take just few days, weeks, months or a year he will remarry.
And the truth is that you never get to tell him the truth about what you want and most times if he brings in another woman like you into that house, she will still suffer same thing because no one ever told him what he is doing wrong. 😥
-Get him books to read about relationships. You guys can even read it together. Watch relationship movies together, send him relationship messages.
- And if you have done everything possible for him to understand what you really want and he is not paying attention or taking it serious, well go ahead and take your wise decision because you can't see yourself dying in depression.
Don't be too holy, gentle or should I say shy to play with your spouse anywhere, anytime enjoy the gift that God gave you. No one knows tomorrow, that might be the last time you will see that person . Let your everyday be a memorable one.
Some people even if their spouse dies today, they won't even miss them while in the spirit world 😂that's how Spiritual they are🤦‍♀️
But most importantly, marry your kind, that fun and loving person that you want and enjoy your home 😘😘
#Virtuousandpurposefulwomeninternational says
Be wise!! and speak out!!
Silence is dangerous!!
Enjoy your home!! 😘😘
Written by : Topsy Gift


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