SAY NO TO CHILD SEXUAL ABUSE !!!

 

Child sexual abuse has been in existence for ages but has recently become a trending topic on social media and in various news platforms.

I think this is a warning to all parents and everyone who cares to know!!!

Some people might say " oh it's not my business" or " my children are well brought up " well let me ask you these few questions:

1. How well do you think you know your children?
2. When you were a kid were they things your parents told you not to do that you still went ahead to do?
3. How well do you know your spouse, son, brother, sister, nephew, niece, cousin, aunt, uncle, visitors, customers and neighbor?
4. How well do you know your children's friends?
5. How often do you teach them about the importance of their private parts and why no one is permitted to touch it( I mean to your male and female children)
5. How often do you teach your teenagers about sexual urge and why they feel the way they feel?
6. Why do you think that rebuking a child when he/she says some certain words like (fuck), (Toto), (prick) (sucking) (fingering) and not truly teaching the child what it meant that the so called rebuke will solve the problem?
7. Have you been observing any changes from your kid since the last time they started attending that school, religious places, friends house and holiday trip with family friends or aunt and uncle?
8. Do you see your bold and outspoken child suddenly go moody and scared or lost in thoughts ?
9. How often do your kids spend money that you or your spouse never gave to them? Because some of the victims of sexual abuse especially( teenagers) are given gift or money, in order not to let anyone know about it and most times these abuser still go ahead to continue having sexual intercourse with these girls in as much as they pay them not to tell anyone.
10. How often do you teach your children the importance of contentment and the dignity of labor (hard work )?
These few questions can help you become more vigilant about your kids and also help to imbibe good virtue into them.
Join virtuous and purposeful women international group on Facebook where we talk about the value of women, and the girl child.
We also stand for the right of women and the girl child in our society today. Although we also talk about women and girls, we also talk about fathers, husbands and the male child.
We enlighten them with all the necessary knowledge needed to become better husbands and fathers, and teach them how to raise well behaved kids.
I believe that together we will build a better society for our children. 

Say no to child sexual abuse !!!

Written by: Topsy Gift
Founder of: Building Minds Organization, and Virtuous and purposeful women international

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