PAMELA WHY?

......oh oh oh.....No no....Pamela why?
Let's eat the mugu...let's eat the mugu...who born the maga🙄 Pamela Why? 🤦‍♀️oh sorry I mean ladies why?😂
He tells you...oh can we go out later today to go have some lunch? And then you say sure that won't be a problem.

Just before you left he says that's my card call me when you are ready. You collected it and nodded sure I will leaving him with a sweet smile 😁

He gets into his car feeling excited, he hopes it works out between you two.

You picked up the phone and called your fellow eat and run friends....I mean like hit and run drivers 🙄( birds of a feather) to come eat their own portion of the national cake 🤦‍♀️ Pamela why (ladies)?

Your friends hailed and you felt excited. later that same day you guys went to eat. He didn't mind you came with your friends, he foot the bills all the same.

After the lunch you got home thinking about how to continue milking this guy seeing that he seems to have too much money at his disposal, hmmmm🤔🤔 and he got home thinking if you would really like him.

He has money but he is looking for a genuine woman he could call a wife with whom he could spend his money.

Ahaaaaaa....you finally arrive at a conclusion on how you would make him buy a car for you and if possible build or buy house for you and your parents.

You quickly wrote down your plans and started keeping in touch with him so as to win his heart ❤️

You seduced him thinking that it would be better to tie him down with sex but he kept refusing to have sex with you and one day he knelt down and said baby please would you marry me? Ohhh you quickly faked the excitement just to make him happy.

If a guy ask you out and you agreed and then he lets you know his mind and you are sure that you will not ever have anything to do with this guy, please stop giving him false hope. It could be that the guy truly loves you and that is why he is doing everything to make you happy.

He was happy 😄 his dreams are coming true but your plans are getting closer. Out of excitement and from the heart ❤️ of true love, he got you a car and later along the line you said you want him to fix your parents house in the village, he did it for you and also got you one in the city so you don't border paying rents.

You told him you want to do a four years course in the university and he says let's get married first, you got upset and he apologized and said ok after your university studies, you smiled and gave him a kiss 😘 and after four years.
Hurraaaay👩🏻‍🎓 and he says let's get married now and you said oh no baby please forgive but I would like to do my masters degree program.

He felt a little bad and you kissed him and begged him. You said but baby it's just two years, ok no problem as long as it will make you happy he said.

And two years later, baby come let's go shop for our wedding 👰 and then you told him you want to think about it, that you don't want to rush into marriage. Meanwhile you are still in touch with your friends and they are still advising you on what to do.

The young man kept asking"when will you be ready for the marriage?"
You started giving him attitude, saying he is bugging you!😳 really?😳 you eventually told him that you are sorry, you can't marry him😱....

This story is an example of how most ladies use/treat men in our society today. It is so pathetic to know that most women even take pride in doing this😥😥and they say "Yeah we ate him dry"

Were you called into the ministry of eating men dry? 🤦‍♀️

If you don't love a guy or don't have any feelings for him, why would you hang around for his money? 🤷‍♀️that is wickedness.

As a result such attitude:

Some men have become mean towards women
-Some men have become drunkards/Rapist
-Some men have vowed never to get married but have promised to inflict pain on every woman that comes their way
-Most men have vowed never to be faithful to their spouse because of their past experience
-Some men have become bullies

Dear woman, I am sure that you are aware that by exhibiting wicked and deceptive attitude like these, you are invariably contributing to some of the societal disasters that we are facing today. What kind of society are we building for the next generation?

Please let's make it right by amending our ways and teaching the next generation the right way to go. And together we can make the world a better place.

#Virtuousandpurposefulwomeninternational saying:

Be wise ! And stay blessed !

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